Who is calling you again and again? I asked my friend Rose. She replied casually saying who else but my boyfriend. Then why are you not receiving his call, I held my eyebrows a bit high with a question mark on the face and few lines on my forehead. "Oh that's fine" she said...let him call like few more times and then i will receive. After saying this she got busy with the lady at the parlor who was doing her Pedicure( uff, i know). Her mobile kept on ringing within every five minutes of time. Then she received few messages and she did not even bothered to look at them. She was busy in her make over at the parlor. She was busy in asking the lady that what facial will be good for her skin and that in what time she should change the hair color that she recently applied. I looked at my mobile if he has called me or messaged me. Nope as usual he didn't.Since i told him that i will be going out with my friends he preferred not to disturb me. I found it a sensible thought as well. But still i missed him and wondered why don't he call me like Rose's boyfriend calls her. Why don't he messages me even when i say I will be fine if he don't.
"Oh yes Baby..the hair color is exactly like the way you want.Rose exclaimed on the phone. Yes i love you too baby, she added". And i think he asked something personal and she went outside murmuring on the phone. What i heard was she was saying that since she was busy she could not receive the call. I made the payment at the counter and came out of the place.After looking at rose, even i was excited to tell him about my makeover and what all happened. I called him and messaged as well, but he didn't replied to either of them. That usually happens when he is busy and i really don't mind if he don't reply to my calls or messages, because that's what happens mostly. I am the one in the relationship who gives the extra effort. It is like that in every relationship. One person surely does more than the other. But since we love each other, it gets compensated. It does not matter who does more and who does a little less. Me and Rose went for some shopping after that and her man kept on messaging her saying what dress, color she should buy, what should she wear at the wedding and what he wants her to buy as a gift for the couple. I was in my world thinking he didn't reply to my message yet. He has given me enough freedom to wear what i want, what color i love, and the right to chose anything as a gift. I am the one was has a kind of responsibility to take care of these things. Looking at Rose, i called him asking what color should i wear at the office party. I think this was the first time i acted kranky like this. I received an message saying " In a meeting. Talk to you later". I shopped with half mind and decided to go home.
Rose went with her boyfriend as he wanted to spend some time with her, and wanted to see the stuffs she brought from the market. He came to pick her up at the Mall. I took a rickshaw
and reached home. It somehow triggered in my mind that our relationship is not as perfect as Rose's relationship.
Today i decided to talk to him at the dinner. We met. He was as usual...Normal and happy. He talked about the office stuff. And asked me how was my day..I replied coldly saying "it was Okay".. I was not into the conversation because i had this thought that the relationship we have is not perfect. I waited for him to say I love you..He did not. I asked him if he loves me. He said "yes of course I do" The answer was not that appealing to me..He was not able to convince me today that he loved me. Somewhere three words were not enough for me to believe. Somehow i felt that the relationship is not working. Somewhere, Love was not enough for him to make me happy. Somewhere i started expecting things out of him that i never expected. Looking at someone else's relationship expectations started rising. I wanted him to do those stuffs for me that rose's boyfriend does for her. For me the definition of perfect relationship changed. He was not aware of what happened to me today. He did not even made an effort to know much. It burst-ed me more, and i walked out saying.." I think it's not working anymore. I think you don't love me".
Guys the above situation is just to make all of us realize that definition of perfect PeRfect relationship is different from person to person. Never compare your relationship with some
one's else, because you don't know how much is the love percentage in their relationship. People call thousand times a day and still cheat on each other. People in relationship from seven or Eight year break up because they don't love each other anymore. Or Few cases, People just meet in a second..fall in love and stays forever with each other. I think we have to decide what a perfect relationship will be for us instead of looking around the world and then defining it.
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